Subject #2 in the "Bodfather"
Witness Reduction Program: Laurie
Height: 5'6"
Starting weight: 240
Current weight: 228
Total Loss: 12 lbs.
They call me the Bodfather. There are many things my father Horace taught me here in this room. He taught me: keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer and keep your friends who you're trying to help with their weight-loss journey even closerer.
Hey Jack,
I was completely unprepared for the amount of food that would be around the office. I have never worked in an office situation before. I spent years working in labs where the holidays were acknowledged, but no luncheons, no candy, no crap around the offices. Over the last 2 weeks, we have had multiple clients and people in the community drop cakes, pies, candy, and other assorted fat making dishes. It culminated in yesterday.
Yesterday, I almost cried at my desk. I walk in and on my desk are two big boxes of Godiva chocolates and three gift bags full of homemade goodies (fudge, peanut brittle, pralines, fruit cake cookies, etc). I thanked everyone, had a few things because it was so overwhelming, packed everything up and took it home (I probably should have just thrown it all in a dumpster). My husband (home for the weekend) and I just stared at it all. And then I packed it up again and there it sits, like an evil demon on the counter waiting to suck me into its depths. All of it is going somewhere other than my house. I don't care where, just out. Having it there broke me for a bit. I spent too much time agonizing over whether I could actually lose weight. My emotional interactions with food has really surprised me.
So now, my skin is looking somewhat sallow (I haven't gotten much sleep in the last 4 days because we have a horrible deadline that is killing us, but Thursday of next week, it will be over) from too much sugar and fat.
And I realize that people around me are going to make the whole thing harder and I have to be better prepared for that. People in this office know I am losing weight and watching what I eat. And still yesterday happened. I feel like yelling at them, but I can't because I know in their minds they are being kind. And I am going to have many sessions where sleep is a luxury I can't afford to indulge in too much. And eating at the office during between and around meetings and deadlines is going to have to be planned for in much more detail.
Progress can be measured in other than pounds. Progress can be made in learning what works and what doesn't and implementing accordingly.
- Planning is key to getting through any situation. But planning must be backed up with the resources available. For instance, keeping food in the freezer for emergencies is fine as long as the food doesn't suck. Keep with only tried and true stuff.
- People are kind hearted evil things. Take the goodies, walk to the dumpster and toss.
- Activity is a bitch to get in when chained to a desk. I will have to plan around it and stick to the plan. Walking for more than 5-10 minutes during the day is unrealistic. But a 5 minute walk multiple times a day isn't.
So Jack, you can yell at me for being weak around the food, I deserve it. But it was an amazing learning experience. And this year, instead of greeting the New Year hating myself for being fat, etc., I greet the New Year with an open heart, having learned that EVERY situation teaches me how to do this whole weight loss thing better, if I pay attention. That's a very powerful feeling.
Oh, and beginning Saturday, I start a detox. I gotta get the sugar out of my system. Veggies, fruits, whole grains, lean meats. No sugar!!!
Hope you are having a wonderful holidays and hope everyone is healthy.
Laurie
Hey Laurie,
Well Laurie, I'd like to yell at you but it seems like your own body is beating you up enough. I've lived through (and continue to live through) the break room full of goodies and the sugary presents from well-meaning nitwits. It's easy enough to get through it provided that you don't try to half-ass it... this is truly a situation where you can't have your cake and eat it too.
If you truly are on board going forward, then I'd say it's a one step backward, two steps forward kind of deal. And truthfully Laurie, you're either going to do this now or you're just not. I'd like to think that I can push and cajole folks to be passionate about this business, but at the end of the day it's all on you. You can decide that this is going to be a top priority for you or you can shrug it off and things will simply stay the same.
I hope you'll use the knowledge you've gained as a launching pad to something extraordinary, but I guess we'll just have to wait and see... Hope you and your family have a nice holiday.
Jack
Obligatory lawyer joke:
A local United Way office realized that the organization had never received a donation from the town's most successful lawyer. The person in charge of contributions called him to persuade him to contribute.
“Our research shows that out of a yearly income of at least $700,000, you give not a penny to charity. Wouldn't you like to give back to the community in some way?”
The lawyer mulled this over for a moment and replied, “First, did your research also show that my mother is dying after a long illness, and has medical bills that are several times her annual income?”
Embarrassed, the United Way rep mumbled, “Um ... no.”
The lawyer interrupts, “or that my brother, a disabled veteran, is blind and confined to a wheelchair?”
The stricken United Way rep began to stammer out an apology, but was interrupted again.
“Or that my sister's husband died in a traffic accident,” the lawyer's voice rising in indignation, “leaving her penniless with three children?!”
The humiliated United Way rep, completely beaten, said simply, “I had no idea...”
On a roll, the lawyer cut him off once again, “So if I don't give any money to them, why should I give any to you?”
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